i have learnt to enjoy my own company. Just like right now im typing away in the com lab all by myself. Loneliness is no longer THAT scary. I have learnt to do things by myself and enjoying the whole process as well. Im not saying im converting to become a anti-socialist. But im just proud to declare that i have learnt to combat loneliness and the fact it is not as fearful as it had seemed to mi in the past. The luxury of freedom, to do whateva that one deems fit. Just like what i used to do in the beginning of the sem. Take the bus down to esplanade and walk all ard. Sit in the lib n listen to the CDs while leafing thru the mags. Pure bliss and enjoyment. There's no one to disturb or to please and i do what i like. Spending time with your self also means more time to do self-reflection. Just like what im doing now. Time to clear ur tots and to find focus in life. Erase away the negative tots and replenish with positive ones. ( to tink i used to do the oppoite i.e to generate more negative tots instead of positives one esp after exams :p)
Having lunch alone doesn't seem as bad either. Although im more inclined to avoid doing tt by buying food that i can eat as i walk.
Take time to enjoy ur own company. For loneliness is not a thing to be fearful off.