have been thinking alot lately..haha..ever since tt fri nite....n every since ling blurted out her "secret"(?) haha...so is it really okie to date a guy who's 10 over yrs older than urself??? n whether platonic friendship really exist between a man and a woman??

to me, dating a older man is perfectly fine...as in juz pure dating..but when it comes to a serious r/p, it maybe tough on the gal..imagine how pple will tok behind u..n there's definitely bound to be a time when the r/p will encounter some conflicts n rough times...n tink abt the difference in the level of maturity between the two....although i would haf prefer a more matured guy..haha..

n the topic abt platonic r/p between men n women..n my response to tt is, y not?? i have always believe in friendships bet the opposite sex...although sometimes i kinda suspect im deceiving myself into believing tt coz i do make very generalised comments when i c my female frendz gg out one-on-one wif a guy..haha.....pretty scandalous i guess...n TY definitely dun believe in it...but come to tink of it, perhaps it depends on the degree of closeness bet the 2 parties and the frequency of them meeting ea other...maybe tt's y they always say ri jiu shen qing ba? tt i believe in it...but sometimes im juz confused abt my own feelings towards certain guy frendz....but most of the time it's juz some crushy feelings n a certain degree of "likeness" towards tt person...not those im-ready-to-gointo-a-r/p-wif-uif-u-ask-mi kind..lol! anyway ladies, pls remember the gd old saying, PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!